Saying "NO"

By Anonymous -

People around us affect our life. They are like active ingredients of our life.Their behavior to us, our behavior with them, thats what a daily routine life is all about.
I have had some incidences recently when people deliberately forced some situations on me thinking that I love those situations.
My ideal behavior should have been like: NO! I dont want to have it, I dont want to spend time with u  FULLSTOP
To my surprise, I was not able to tell them that I dont want them.
I failed to say a simple "NO".
We always keep on thinking what people will feel if we resist their opinion and hence we dont resist them.
But sincerely, we should. The impact it creates on our life is great.
Take me for instance, one "NO" to that person would have made my academics better,wouldn't have made me type this post.
A simple NO and I am more stable mentally. I literally fought with one my beloved friend just due to the frustration that I wasnt able to say a NO.
I think we should resist, if we dont want something...just say a NO...if u feel so much bad...add a Sorry to that NO but do say NO.
I have decided today. I will say NO wherever its necessary. I cant let a person(about whom I dont give a damn) to screw with my life.After all, its our life, we get to choose whom to select and to dump whom.
Getting crushed under someone's dominating behavior shouldnt be in our nature.If it's irritating you, if its not acceptable to u.....Just say a polite "NO".

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