Dodging

By Anonymous -
Sometimes, we keep on avoiding some particular topics in order to avoid bitterness in relations.What we always forget that such avoidance in reality pisses the other persons off.
Its always easy to speak out your heart to your friends. Just read a post on fb about who real friends are. They are the one before whom you can quote anything, even their bad things that u dont like.
But, yet we keep on dodging people just in a sense not to hurt them by showing off their bad to them. In reality, we hurt them more by not telling them how and where they are wrong.
This whole paragraph looks a little vague, let me clarify.
Suppose a person bores you off by constantly disturbing you and u keep on getting bored and disturbed and dont say a thing to him thinking that he will get hurt if you directly tell him that he bores you off.
Maybe he will feel bad about it, but deep down somewhere, he will also be happy that you directly asked him to stop being so annoying instead of complaining about him to other friends.
Dodging people when they ask us something just implies that we are trying to avoid the topic just because we really are annoyed by it and just dont want to admit it.
Its hard to tell people that they are wrong, they are turning into a boring machine but if we try to tell them instead of dodging them off the topic, may they can change, maybe they would modify themselves according to you or maybe they wont give a damn.
What's our duty is at least tell them where they are wrong, improvising them isnt our job or improvising us isnt their job. 

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