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Everybody's correct

A recent incidence, a situation came in front of me with 2 options. I chose the one which almost no other concerned person would have chosen. This made me a subject of Laughter for my mates. Its not their fault. I do laugh at them when they pick up horrible choices. What I realized was the thing they chose was horrible for me but incidentally, not for them! Everybody's correct in choices with his own set of rationalizations. Everybody has a different attitude to look upon the choices that have been provided. We cant just blame them or make fun of them just because their choices seem a great mistake for us. Rather we should appreciate those who take such horrible choices(in our view) and yet keep up with those choices despite of so much opposition. It takes courage to go against masses. With our so called 'wrong' choices, we are gathering courage to stand. So, next time if I find someone making a wrong decision (in my view), I would still tease him like hell but deep d...

Attitude

Now this is something controversial, Attitude.         I heard my friend today saying ' Its okay to have attitude, it's OK to be in ego if you do have qualities'. Oh really? And what about those who don't have qualities then? Everybody has qualities, but everybody don't keep on showing off.       I sometimes feel pity of those who keep up their ego and drown in it, they cant even see their own good and there are people who would drop the same and come to u when they need u, once you are useless for them, they would wear their ego clothes again and would leave you.      I don't know which among these 2 types of people are more dangerous. Yep, there can be a third group who are down to earth, most of us are down on earth, but yet...somewhere deep inside us, all of us have some kind of Ego.       Its good till its not hurting you and the people who matter in your life. Well, apparently laymans don't matter much in a film...

Thank You

I just went through a TED talk about human relations and social bonding.And then I recalled the Joker from Batman, there's his famous statement 'When you are good at something, never do it for free'.        Practically speaking, we humans don't need to hear this, I think we already behave this way. Every time we help out someone, there is some motif of personal gain behind it, although we sometimes don't express it but its there. And as we expect some fair amount of return for our jobs, we simply get a THANK YOU. This word, I would say has turned pretty blunt now. People have overused it to such a great extent that nowadays I don't find any feeling of gratefulness attached to the word. People, incidentally,me too, use THANK YOU so often that there's no meaning to it. And I think that's making people feel that they are not being paid the return properly. Take me for instance, i do feel it really emotionless when someone just says a plain thank u to me...

The breeze

As I was turning the written pages of my diary, the breeze came and turned all the pages and brought a blank page up, even the nature wanted to say that its over, get over it and start again..... As I was trying to look out of my window remembering those moments, the breeze came gushing trying to shut my eyes off to make me sleep, even the nature wanted me to say that's over and start over it with new dreams.... As I took a long breath on remembering it, the breeze came and garrisoned my lungs and made me cough, even the nature wanted me to get it out of my senses.... As I still went on vigorously resisting the feeling of forgetting it, again....the damn breeze came and soothed my mind to forget it.... Finally, when the breeze had almost got the control of my life, when it had successfully turned my diary's pages, when it had got my eyes, when it had numbed my senses, when it had soothed my mind....I shuttered down the damn window and came back to my own self.....